He’s the guy you’ve always wanted. But there’s a problem…
Learning how to make him fall in love with you can seem like a hopeless situation when you find yourself in and out of one failed relationship after another. It always starts out great. He always seems like he’s “the one”. But you always end up feeling like a piece of meat instead of the princess you deserve to be or like you’re just his latest play toy that he tosses to the curb as soon as a newer, shinier model comes around.
What makes some women totally irresistible to men?
So how on earth do some girls do it? What do they know about making a man love you forever that always seems to elude you?
Maybe these questions need to be asked in a different way…do you usually pick the guy or do you let the guy pick you?
When you know how to attract a guy and how to keep a guy interested, you can choose any man you want regardless of your age, looks, sexual prowess, power, or social status. Every woman possesses the power to create an incredible attraction in men, but the problem is most women don’t understand men so they don’t utilize this power to its full advantage.
Those who do learn how to easily attract men who want to please them and who will do anything for them. And they do it all while being themselves. Because the truth is, you don’t need larger breasts, a skinnier waist, or longer legs to attract men.
The Relationship Doctor, Bob Grant, proves this in his best selling ebook, “The Woman Men Adore…And Never Want To Leave“, where he explores exactly what it takes to get everything you want from a man and your relationships.
You see, when a man gets what he wants, you get what you want. Dr. Grant explains it this way…
“Here’s the big secret. Men want to be enraptured by a woman. They may not admit it openly, but they want to be lured, finessed, bewitched, possessed and seduced by a woman — and they don’t mind surrendering to her siren maneuverings and being rendered powerless by her. A man would gladly give anything to the woman who can make him feel good.”
That last part is extremely important…
If you want to make a man love you, you have to a make a man feel good. But how do you do that?
If you’re like a lot of women, you might think getting to the heart of a man involves becoming a sexual goddess or slaving away in the kitchen cooking him one gourmet meal after another. This is nothing but fiction at its finest.
5 Tips On How To Make A Guy Fall For You
Here are 5 tips that can help you make a man feel good.
Create An Emotionally Charged First Date
If you’re just starting a new relationship with a man or getting ready to go out on your very first date, then first impressions can be extremely important. You want to be different from every other girl he’s dated. You want to be unique. You want him to see you as the only girl in the world for him.
One way to do this is to create an emotionally charged first date. A much stronger bond is created between two people when powerful emotions are involved in the activities they share together.
This is why two people who have gone through something traumatic (like escaping from bad guys who are trying to kill them) often fall in love even if they hated each other at the beginning. This sort of thing is depicted in Hollywood movies all the time. The powerful emotional bond of going through something like that together is extremely difficult to break.
So am I saying you should go out and do something dangerous or get chased by kidnappers with guns on your first date? Of course not (although you’d have quite the story to tell afterward).
But if you want to create a strong bond with your man right from the get go, then opt for something like a scary theme park roller coaster ride or racing go-karts for your first date instead of the typical dinner and a movie. The added elements of fear and the adrenaline rush will create a stronger connection than the same old “getting to know you” dinner talk.
What you talk about on your dates can make a lasting impression too. Why not focus on some fun and exciting topics rather than the same old boring getting to know you stuff that he’s talked about with every other woman he’s dated? Oprah’s love expert, Michael Webb, has put together 1000 Questions For Couples, many of which can make for great first date conversation topics.
Even though you don’t NEED a man in your life to be happy (at least you shouldn’t), you can make a guy want you by making him feel needed. But before you get too carried away, let me throw out a word of caution here.
You must realize “need him” does not mean “be needy”. These are two entirely different concepts with completely opposite effects on a man. The first makes a man feel like he is your Knight In Shining Armor and makes him fall deeper in love with you. The second makes him run for the hills.
With each passing year, women are becoming more and more independent. The truth is, women simply don’t need men and don’t rely on men the way they use to back in the “olden days” when the man was responsible for putting food on the table.
This has caused many men to lose sight of their roles in relationships. Don’t get me wrong. Men love and adore independent women who can stand on their own two feet, but men also need to feel like they are needed in the relationship, even if it’s just for killing the spiders on the wall. It’s his natural instinct to want to provide for you, so be sure to let him know he’s needed.
Nurture His Visual Instincts
You probably already know men are visually attracted to women. To make a man love you forever, take pride in your physical appearance. Most men fall in love with women just the way they are. They don’t want you to ever change.
You don’t have to be a supermodel because he’ll love you just the way you are. But you should always be aware of the power your femininity and physical beauty has on a man. That little bit of extra “cuteness” can make him melt, so use it to your advantage.
Alternatively, Evan Michaels and Jess Summers’ best selling ebook, “The Dirty Talk Handbook”, reveals how to use Facebook, email, texting, and instant messenger chats to make a man want you…even before he ever lays eyes on you. If you’re shy and struggle with this aspect of turning a man on, Evan and Jess show you how to turn even R-rated flirting into something classy, easy, and elegant that will drive your man wild without embarrassing you (or him) in the process.
Make him crave you with the slightest touch or, better yet, whisper something sexy in his ear as you walk by him. You’ll make him feel extremely masculine and he’ll love you for it. You’ll make him feel like a man and feeling like a man will make him feel good. And it’s that incredible feeling he associates with being around you that will make him fall in love with you.
Learning how to make a guy want you also involves learning how to compliment him in a way that makes him feel like a man. Women are used to having men compliment them all the time. In fact, they often receive compliments from men so often that they begin to have very little effect or may even become an annoying turn-off. Afterall, by the time the 10th guy of the night tells you how pretty your eyes are, it starts to lose its appeal, doesn’t it?
Men, on the other hand, rarely receive compliments…but that doesn’t mean they don’t love hearing them, especially from a woman.
If you want to make a man love you forever, tell him what you love and adore about him. It doesn’t have to be anything crazy or elaborate. In fact, it can be as simple as telling him how amazing you feel when you’re around him.
You might also tell him how great he is at something, that you think he’s really smart or funny, or how he always makes your day when you’re around him. Complimenting a man can push you deeper and deeper into his heart because he’ll associate all those positive emotions with you. With a little practice, you can learn everything you need to know about how to make him fall in love with you so he never wants to leave.
Derek Maak has been writing about relationships for as long as he can remember. He hopes to bring more passion, romance, intimacy, desire, and FUN to every interaction with your loved one. Connect with Derek on Twitter, Facebook, and Google +.