How do you create the deep attraction that will make a guy melt? Are there secrets some women know that others don’t?
Maybe you’re hoping to get the attention of a man for the very first time. Maybe you’ve caught his attention and are trying to get him to like you because you want more than just a friendship. Maybe you’re already in a committed relationship and just want to spice things up with extra passion and romance.
Regardless of the situation, if you can make a guy melt like no woman ever has, then you quickly become irresistible in his eyes. Men, for the most part, are emotional walls, and when you can break down the barrier and reach him on a deep, emotional level, you’ll make yourself stand far and above other women he knows.
How To Make A Guy Melt – 2 Things To Focus On To Make Him Yours
The first tip to make a guy melt is really quite simple: use his own biological makeup against him. Men are hard wired to be visually oriented. They are attracted to the physical appearance of a woman and there’s nothing they can do about it. They don’t choose to be attracted. They simply are or they aren’t.
Rather than complaining about guys being shallow, jerks, or selfish pigs, use this information to your advantage. Realize it’s part of his genetic makeup and not something he has control over. Embrace your femininity. It’s one of your most powerful weapons for melting men.
If you want to catch a man’s attention, take his breath away, and make him melt, you need to stimulate him visually. But don’t mistake this for meaning you have to be a “10″ and have the body of a supermodel to get a man because nothing could be further from the truth.
To understand what I mean, think of a man picking you up for prom and staring up the stairs as you walk down and he sees you for the first time. When you’re incredibly beautiful, he instantly feels a deep attraction and connection to you the moment he sees you. It can melt his heart instantly.
Emphasize your best qualities. Maybe it’s your eyes. Maybe it’s your smile. Maybe it’s your confidence and body language. Regardless of what you look like, every woman possesses the ability to stimulate a man visually, and men will fall all over themselves when they are in the presence of a woman who has perfected this ability.
Always look your best if you want to capture the heart of a man. It’s not about being a model, and it doesn’t mean dressing like a prostitute. It means being the most beautiful YOU that you can be. And don’t forget that confidence and body language are a big part of the way you look and feel, so don’t underestimate the power of these. In fact, they are far more important than what you wear, the way you do your hair, or the makeup you put on.
It comes down to this: when you dress beautiful, you’ll feel beautiful and you’ll act beautiful.
That’s the magical combination that will create the “WOW” factor that will stop him dead in his tracks. Let him know you did it all just for him and he’ll feel even more incredible. Never forget the power you have over men when you use your amazing smile.
Women want to feel special and loved on a regular basis…
The next secret of how to make a guy melt involves keeping score, or more specifically how men keep score.
But first let’s look at how women keep score.
In a relationship, a man earns a point with a woman every time he does something sweet for her. The size of the action doesn’t matter.
Whether he opens a door for her, gives her a card, buys her flowers, makes her dinner, or buys her expensive jewelry, he still always just earns one point. It’s all about consistency and regularity. Women want their men to make them feel special on a regular and continuing basis.
But for guys, it’s different. In fact, it’s the complete opposite for most guys.
In a man’s eyes, a woman earns the most points with him when she does something big. It’s not about the regularity of the actions, but more about the size of each action.
For example, you’ll score more points with your man by buying him tickets to his favorite sporting event than you will by making him dinner or leaving him a note in his pants pocket. Because men and women are so different in this regard, many couples have a difficult time understanding each other and these types of situations can lead to arguments.
Does the following scenario sound all too familiar?
One day the woman asks her man, “How come you never show me how much you love me anymore?”
The guy immediately gets defensive and responds with, “What do you mean? I just bought you two dozen roses a couple of months ago!”
The woman is upset because she wants to feel loved on a regular basis, and the man is upset because he feels the roses were a big action that should keep him from having to do anything else for quite a while.
So what’s the point to take home from all of this?
Knowing what men want and surprising him with big actions from time to time can help melt him and make him open to love with the most amazing, most incredible woman he knows…YOU!
Derek Maak has been writing about relationships for as long as he can remember. He hopes to bring more passion, romance, intimacy, desire, and FUN to every interaction with your loved one. Connect with Derek on Twitter, Facebook, and Google +.